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WILBUR WANTS TO KILL HIMSELF
Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself is the perfect title for Lone Scherfig's
darkly droll film. Indeed, the film does tell the story of Wilbur (Jamie
Sives), a handsome
and quirky fellow who tries unsuccessfully and repeatedly to commit suicide.
The simplicity of the title matches the tone of the film, which takes a
childlike look at what it means to live, love and die. Harbour (Adrian
Rawlins), Wilbur's older brother, decides to take him in and tries to teach
him that life is worth living. Wilbur reluctantly moves in and
unwittingly co-manages, with Harbour, the small used bookshop bequeathed to
them by
their father. Here, they meet Alice, played with exquisite
subtlety by
Shirley Henderson (Topsy-Turvy, Bridget Jones's Diary). In order
to pay her
bills, Alice, a single mother of one, visits the bookshore to sell books she
finds left behind during her night shift as a hospital janitor. Harbour and
Alice
marry and the foursome become a family. According to Alice, "It's nice that people can get
together when they don't have anyone else." Her idea of loving
what you have is at the core of the film, and is ultimately what helps
Wilbur overcome his suicidal tendencies. As the story unfolds, our
connection to the characters deepens. With the exception of young Mary,
Alice’s daughter, each
personality has its flaws, but all are charming. A skillful
filmmaker, Scherfig's writing and direction are both fairy tale-like and grounded in a kitchen-sink type of reality. The
honesty in each of her characters helps us believe
the story even at its most outrageous moments. In this way, the film is as
successful as Scherfig's last film, Italian For Beginners, a Dogme film
that
followed a cast of characters brought together by Italian language class and a
desire
for happiness. In Wilbur, Scherfig probes what it means to be at peace with life,
and to find joy in humanity even during its bleakest
moments. Caitlin Shamberg, former programming associate for the Mill Valley Film Festival
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